Wednesday, Dec 02.
You need to be more upfront and honest, Cap, with others and with yourself. You are glibly saying one thing while you think another and this kind of dishonesty never works out well…It may not be politic, or pleasant, or easy, but honesty really is the best policy. You are not helping the person you are lying to by bolstering their misconception; and sooner or later the truth will out. DO you really want to risk losing your friend along with their trust? If you are in a relationship, your beloved may be coming to you for advice concerning a very personal and emotional issue that may have some bearing on your own interests. If you feel that you cannot be impartial say so. Rather not opine, than later be accused of being biased.